Exact same for me. I installed a switch craft 3-way toggle and I frequently bump it out of position, definitely not rigid enough and too tall, even though it's the short version.To chime-in on the comments about the overkill 3-way switch:
Installed a standard Gibson-style toggle as part of some rewiring I did on my RGD3127, and didn't like the feel of the switch at all.
It was too tall, and too easy to change. Given it's location, I kept inadvertently hitting it and changing pickups while playing.
So, I switched back to the Ibanez toggle (glad I saved it).
Does anyone know of another toggle that has the same feel and lower-profile as the Ibanez switch? I was looking at the Fat Bat Toggle online, but would have to actually order it to know for sure... which I'd prefer not to do.
What I like about the Ibanez factory switch is the stiffer action and lower-profile than most 3-way toggles.