So, when I was last over there, we had left on a good note, I think. I had stuck around one last night. Got cuddly, but nothing more than that, and continued talking so never really got any sleep. No sleep means slept through the alarms, and I felt bad so I drove her to work (since she would have never made it on time otherwise). At the point I figured everything was cool. A clean split, nobody is mad, etc. I get an email part way through the day - "this is my work email if you want to reach me during the day", since the phone was dead. Followed up immediately with "sorry, I guess I should give you some space and not message". I reply that it's fine to keep in some amount of contact, I'm not just going to cut off all communication. At that point, I ended the email with something like "I still recommend getting something to eat lol". There's some backstory/context to that one because she clearly has an eating disorder but is in denial about it. She hadn't had anything to eat at all in about 4 days, including during this party, etc. I meant it to be funny, and a bit of a callback to a conversation from before about how I figured I was being a good influence in a way. But also some amount of concern, because I'm well aware of what it's like to have that eating disorder and I can see bad things in her future if she doesn't course correct. Reply I get - "gonna have to ask you to lay off about my eating habits". ...... You know what, fvck that. I tried to show some concern and be friendly right of the bat. And that's what I get in response. Ya know.... you're right KnightBro. I need not spend any effort keeping that bridge from burning. I didn't even reply. I played some Breath of the Wild instead today. It was nice. Moral of the story: Be good to yourself, 'cause someone's gatta do it.