SS Love and Relationships Thread

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  1. eventhetrees

    eventhetrees What's a Panini?

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    I need to man up and just tell the girl I like how I feel. We've hung out a lot, she's made herself totally obvious to me yet she still acts nervous cause she's unsure about how I feel yet her nervousness makes me too nervous to straight up reply. I see her again in a week, possibly before that too....we'll see what happens. It's been a year since my last relationship...need to man up. I'm normally perfectly fine and confident, I just like her too much and don't wanna blow it by doing something dumb!
     
  2. eventhetrees

    eventhetrees What's a Panini?

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    Wow..I got the top of the page...sorry for the double post but. My best friends that are girls are telling me she's waiting on me and that I should stop being a pussy. I will see her saturday (maybe before then). Time to man up.
     
  3. vampiregenocide

    vampiregenocide SS.org Regular

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    Fuck yeah man you can do it. I'm channeling all my new found love confidence and manliness to you, use it well.
     
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    Murmel SS.org Regular

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    I'll give all of mine too, it ain't much but it should help a little bit :lol:
    I'm a true pussy when it comes to telling girls how I feel for them.
     
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  5. eventhetrees

    eventhetrees What's a Panini?

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    Thanks dudes.

    I've been given like so many green lights. Last time we went out. I was gonna take her out. She flipped all the plans on me and ended up taking ME out...like fuck....ugh...so ready!!!!!
     
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    Murmel SS.org Regular

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    I don't know if you've seen the episode of Family Guy when Brian takes it sloooow with a girl, but that's what I picture on my head.
     
  7. eventhetrees

    eventhetrees What's a Panini?

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    LMAO yeah, I've seen that episode.
     
  8. Fzau

    Fzau Unleash the proggies

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    Am I the only one who thinks it doesn't work that way?
    In my opinion you don't tell girls you like them if you aren't together yet, you show it in your behavior.
    I think telling someone takes all the excitement away from the 'game' of attraction (does he/she like me or not?).

    I'm not saying telling them is wrong, I just enjoy the indirect approach WAY more and I know a lot of girls here do so too (feel free to correct me Peekaboo :D).

    Never have I said to a girl that I really liked her/loved her before we were in some sort of a relationship. I do turn the roles around though (You must really like me! etc.) :lol:

    If there's no way you could connect using the indirect approach it's not going to change if you suddenly tell them you love/like them. :shrug:

    But like I said, just my two cents here. Whatever works for you. :D
     
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    Murmel SS.org Regular

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    Yeah dude ofcourse you show her, but you CAN tell her too ;)
     
  10. eventhetrees

    eventhetrees What's a Panini?

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    very true. Some of my friends are telling me to just call her up and say it. But no, I wanna wait till I see her again and just show it more. She's shown it enough back to me in her own way for me to step it up. I've done the telling my feelings before were together and its blown up in my face! Do that once you're a bit established.
     
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    Fzau Unleash the proggies

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    If you're positive that she likes you, next time you meet up and have a moment alone try to take it further perhaps?
    Create a right mood, look in her eyes, maybe even go for a kiss? ;)

    Stay confident, mate. You can do it! :D
     
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    eventhetrees What's a Panini?

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    Yeah exactly. Like last time we hung out, I could have done it and chickened out, and the second time it was in the doorway of her house. Her parents are kinda strict (by the looks of it) so I don't wanna get in trouble right off the bat...but I made my feelings a bit more obvious, but not as obvious as I should have.

    Next time I'll be ready.
     
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    vampiregenocide SS.org Regular

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    Ask the fuck out of that girl or I'll come over there and beat you. All the way from the UK. I will do it.
     
  14. eventhetrees

    eventhetrees What's a Panini?

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    Thank you. I actually appreciate this haha.

    Don't worry next time I see her. I'm house sitting in downtown Toronto and we're going out to a vegan/vegetarian food fair (she's a pescetarian, vegetarian but still eats fish). Yeah, should be a fun day!
     
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    vampiregenocide SS.org Regular

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    Good to hear sir. Best of luck, make SS.org proud. :hbang:
     
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    I honestly wouldn't give a damn. mainly cause I just end up regretting being with them in the 1st place
     
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    eventhetrees What's a Panini?

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    Will do and I'll keep you guys posted as progress is made! :metal:
     
  18. Fzau

    Fzau Unleash the proggies

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    Would you mind coming over here and slapping me too, Ross?
    I kinda deserve it. ;)





    Ok wtf :ugh:
     
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    Hey Positive Pete!
     
  20. vampiregenocide

    vampiregenocide SS.org Regular

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    :wub:




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