You don't even have to play if you're doing it right. I'm going ti admit, I've gotten more than one girl's phone number because, when talking to them, I've added something to a small pocket notebook. "What did you write?" "A verse, or maybe a chorus, for a song." Note: Yes, I've actually been inspired by some girls by something about them which struck me, whether eyes, personality, a sad story which leads to an anthemic song about being there for them, whatever. "I can't take credit, because you've got something special. Do you want to see what I wrote?" No one refuses. "Oh my god... Is that really about me?" "I guess the most amazing thing about the extraordinary is that those who have always lived in the heart of it don't see how extraordinary they actually are." Who doesn't want to hear how the song turns out, and even spend time with the one who saw that in them? I don't do this as a party trick, but on the plus side, every person who ever struck me as a potential partner has easily inspired at least one song.