Thanks. That worked. FWIW, the chat room is fun but the 30 members who are active from SSO have known each other for 10 years so its almost like a “private boys club,” and the ghost of yellow seems to haunt them to this very day still - I just wanted to chat about guitars, but I don’t feel welcome at all - and with my problems, with not being familiar with social apps or anything puts me at a disadvantage and no one has patience to deal with me. They weren’t overtly hostile, but it was clear that I didn’t belong there and I felt it without them having to tell me get out, which happened as well. I’m not even complaining, and I don’t care if it sounds pu$$y but my feelings were actually hurt. I tried to play along with their jokes until I realized I was the butt of the joke without knowing it the entire time.