This is one thing that I think might make humanity special. I've never been much into the pursuit of hookups and the like, so I really truly think that physical attributes are only there to get your attention. I won't deny that physical attributes are a perfectly valid way to make a very first impression. But then, after a person has another person's attention, they generally have ten seconds to follow through. At no point in my life would I have preferred to spend time with a physically attractive person with whom I have nothing at all in common to a physically unattractive person with whom I can have stimulating discussion. If I was a spider monkey, then I'd probably be good to go after seeing a butt that's the right shape, but as a human, the butt is like saying "hello..." and if the person attached to the butt has nothing to say after that, I would just go back to whatever I was doing. Now that I'm married, I can say that while my wife has a great butt, I'm much more interested in her brain. Not what it looks like, obviously, but what it has to say and do. I would like to think that the same preference is true for most people, regardless of their gender or sexual identity or whatever, but sadly, I don't think it is true for everyone, and it's sad because I think those who see it that way are simply missing out.