Today is a big day.

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  1. techcoreriffman

    techcoreriffman : roll :

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    So, first a little backstory:
    Over the past 5 years, I have been having progressively worse relations with my parents. What with me being an artistic atheist in a very traditional catholic family. Couple that with my father being a very violent drunk, and well yeah, you get the picture. Bad stuff.

    Flash forward to today. My mother had been being extremely disrespectful for a good week and a half straight. Just nagging at me for the smallest most infantile shit that she could possibly think of. Just to push my buttons. I finally decided to start being disrespectful back. Usually I am very respectful to my parents and respect all their wishes. But I had had enough. So I startede to yell. And then she smacked me. So instead of punching her, I punched the wall. Which put a hole in it. (In retrospect, I should have handled this more adultly, and just walked away.)

    Then she goes to tattle to my daddy about me hitting the wall and he comes down in a drunken rage. He said that if my best friend Robert hadn't been there he would've beat the shit out of me. He then kicked me out of my home. For good. Which is a godsend honestly, because I've wanted to be emancipated since I was 12.

    Robert's parents have graciously allowed me to stay here until I can get enough money to rent an apartment. And I'm old enough to actually rent an apartment. I have nothing but respect and love for his family at the moment.

    Sorry for the novel, but I needed to share this. Thanks guys.
     
  2. jacksonslut

    jacksonslut dennaB

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    i know how you feel man. my parents were the same damn way. they kicked out so many times. so i eventually left for michigan without telling them :) hope everything goes good for you dude! eventually talked to them again and my mom is begging me to come home
     
  3. Xiphos68

    Xiphos68 SS.org Regular

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    I'm sorry for what you've gone through dude.

    But I hope things get better with you and your parents.

    :)

    Praying.
     
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    techcoreriffman : roll :

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    Thanks guys. Especially you Xiphos. Even though I'm not religious, I know you are, and that means a lot to me. :)
     
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    Xiphos68 SS.org Regular

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    Anytime.
    You're absolutely welcome.
    :)
     
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    dude my singer has been in this boat now for two years
    for some reason he keeps going back and they keep getting into it
    but when shit hits the fan he usually stays either at my place or at his connections place
    i hate to see this keep happening to people
    im very family oriented and i cant even imagine something like this
    so i wish you the best of luck man just get out there and do what you feel is right for you
     
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    I have no respect for people who through their weight around while drunk, so I honestly think you should have decked your father. but this is just my opinion and I dont know the whole story so take it with a grain of salt.

    hope you get back on your feet soon mate!
     
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    Sam, a few months ago I shattered his jaw with my brass knuckles. Violencew with him has no effect, so I just stopped trying. This is really the best thing for me right now
     
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    Righto mate thanks for clarifying :yesway:
     
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    This is some crazy stuff. I do n't know how it feels to have parents like that, but I feel bad for them for treating you so badly. I don't understand why someone would want to have a child and go on to treat them wrong. Glad you finally got your wish to be away from them, but not glad that it was in such a way. Good luck man.
     
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    Explorer He seldomly knows...

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    Quick observation: if you have any younger siblings still at home, now is the time to get social services involved.

    I'd go after that in a big way.

    Sorry to hear. I had lots of friends who got kicked out because they were gay and their families were loving fundamentalist Christians.
     
  12. CrushingAnvil

    CrushingAnvil \m not jesus land m/

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    Your dad is a cunt.

    Hail satan.
     
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    ittoa666 /)'3'(\

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    Legitimate real life :lol:
     
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    BrainArt Deftones Guru.

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    My mom and I think that people should have to have licenses and go through rigorous tests in order to have a child. I mean, you have to have a license to drive a 2 ton piece of machinery that can kill a grown man at 35MPH, but anyone can have a child. :noplease:


    Glad that you got out of that shit situation, Jordan. :yesway:
     
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    Congratulations dude, it's great that you're out of there.

    My dad was an abusive asshole and kicked me out when I was 15 (after moving between him and my mum previously too... they both suck), so I know how it feels to be stuck in a situation like that and the INSANE relief when you're finally out.

    Hope it all works out for the best, but either way it's a damn fine start.
     
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    onwards and upwards my man, time to out grow them and not look back. This will make more of a statement that fighting back or words ever could.
     
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    Explorer, I do have siblings, but they are my parents little angels. They're both "normal" pious Catholics that do anything they're told like a sheep. I was "different". Atheist, artistic, bisexual, yadda-yadda.

    And yes, this is a good start. Job hunt starting tomorrow :)
     
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    ry_z Ikebana Noise Club

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    :agreed:

    Best wishes, man. :yesway:
     
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    I admire your strength to be who you are in that situation, I came from a hyper religous family (see: protestant) and I could never express who I was for fear of being "wrong"
     
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    Keep your head on your shoulders, and become the absolute best person you can now that you're free. I feel you were going to do that, anyways.

    Best of wishes, and get ahold of me if you need anything. :yesway:
     

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