To the OP: How many shows have you been to? I don't want to come off as a dick, but please do yourself a favor, and go to more shows. If you dig the deathcore thing (which I assume you do) go see Whitechapel in a small club. And, when Nergal gets better, everybody needs to see Behemoth in a club. And Gojira. Well, fuck, any band is better in a small club.