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Unread 05-05-2012, 01:36 PM   #4026
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Hmmm.

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You'd better hope she doesn't find this thread, the way you're talking about her, and the stuff you're telling us or it'll be postponed to the quite-so-distant never.

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Unread 05-05-2012, 03:51 PM   #4027
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So here's a bit of an update on the woman I talked about a few pages ago (here).

It's been about 2 months since the first time I went out with her, and things are going very well. I took her to a nice restaurant a few days before my birthday, where we had our first kiss. She took me out for drinks on my birthday, after which we made out quite aggressively. We have since spent a lot of time together. She helps me with my anxiety and depression, and I help her with her problems as well.

She is a wonderful person, inside and out. And she says she loves me, which is a bit surreal. I have no reason to doubt her words, but on some level it's hard to believe that a person such as her could care about a person such as me. It's a good feeling, and I love her too. After the time we have spent together, it has become plainly apparent that she is the incarnation of everything I have looked for in a woman. On top of that, she says that I am everything she looks for in a man. So that's good.

I have taken to writing her letters almost every day. I bought some cotton paper and a pen with archival ink. As often as I can, I sit down and tell her what I'm thinking and how I'm feeling. She has saved everything I have given her.

I'm not sure what is going to happen tomorrow, but today I'm happy.

Only problem is, she is way too beautiful for me (so I say, so she disagrees). I've got to fix my diet and join a gym and get in shape, so that when we're out in public, she can be as proud to be with me as I am with her. (She says she already is, but I'm going to do it anyway.)
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Unread 05-05-2012, 06:33 PM   #4028
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a simple "hey what's up this is ______" will suffice...that is if she knows your name

and as far as texting is concerned, I like to wait like 10-20x as long as she does between texts...if she replies in 30 seconds, I'll wait a solid ten. If she takes 2 minutes, bitch please you get a half hour

I did this, and it seemed to have worked! We were texting each other all day yesterday and today. We're going to the movies tonight too!
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Unread 05-05-2012, 06:58 PM   #4029
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Movies are nice! Start out with movies then dinner, so you'll get to know her better. Nothings better than a long night with good dialogs, that way you'll show her that you have something in common by having something to talk about Doesnt have to be a restaurant, bring her to your place and make some tacos together. That whay there's like 90% chance you'll get desert :p Or just a nice day and a second chance
Anyways, good luck!

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She is a wonderful person, inside and out. And she says she loves me, which is a bit surreal. I have no reason to doubt her words, but on some level it's hard to believe that a person such as her could care about a person such as me.
Screw that! Just be happy for what she gives you, and take it as a compliment. 1. Maybe your much more handsome than you think you are. 2. She likes you just the way you are. What more can a man want. I'm sure ugly ass hell myself, but my woman makes me happy and confident, that's the only thing that matters.
Just enjoy it as long as you can, show her that she makes you confident, and not the other way..
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Unread 05-05-2012, 07:21 PM   #4030
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Screw that! Just be happy for what she gives you, and take it as a compliment. 1. Maybe your much more handsome than you think you are. 2. She likes you just the way you are. What more can a man want. I'm sure ugly ass hell myself, but my woman makes me happy and confident, that's the only thing that matters.
Just enjoy it as long as you can, show her that she makes you confident, and not the other way..
Oh, I am happy with what she gives me, and I make sure she knows it. She does give me a lot of confidence, and likewise, I make sure she knows it. But at the same time, a little self-motivated self-improvement is never a bad thing. She thinks I'm great just how I am, but I want to be better for her.
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Unread 05-05-2012, 07:31 PM   #4031
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Good to hear man! As you're saying - there's always room for improvement. Thats something to remember..
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Unread 05-05-2012, 07:42 PM   #4032
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Mugfug could you remove those quotes from your post?

Thanks.
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Unread 05-06-2012, 12:26 AM   #4033
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Man. I was doing so well at not caring about being single, then like a jackass I had to up and move to a country where I'm SURROUNDED by hotties everywhere I go. I'm back to fixating on it more than I should, and two failed attempts at getting something started so far sure didn't help. My knee needs to hurry up and heal enough to allow me to at least go out on weekends to try and meet new people.

I'm too old for this nonsense.

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Unread 05-06-2012, 01:04 AM   #4034
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Don't worry Tim, I'm in kind of the same situation except it's the part of San Francisco that borders Japan AND Chinatown vs. Korea So. many. asians.

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Unread 05-06-2012, 02:04 AM   #4035
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Mugfug could you remove those quotes from your post?

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I will however, acknowledge that this is hilarious to me.
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Unread 05-06-2012, 02:08 AM   #4036
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So I hung out with my girlfriend today, things were perfect and we had a fire/cookout in the backyard with my family. I just dropped her off and she didn't want to go home but we have to be up early for my friends baptism for his daughter!

I guess Im just paranoid and just think too much. But things are great and I have nothing to worry about
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Unread 05-06-2012, 02:15 AM   #4037
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So I hung out with my girlfriend today, things were perfect and we had a fire/cookout in the backyard with my family. I just dropped her off and she didn't want to go home but we have to be up early for my friends baptism for his daughter!

I guess Im just paranoid and just think too much. But things are great and I have nothing to worry about
That's the spirit man!

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Haha thank you.
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Unread 05-06-2012, 05:11 AM   #4039
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The plot thickens:

"Hi~^^sorry i just checked your text.
My phon sth wrong.
I am working night duty
So how about school?
Is Everthing good?^^
Take care of you!
See you later....someday ~
Let's keep in touch...."
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Unread 05-06-2012, 06:49 AM   #4040
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YEAH BOOOOIIIIIII! WOOP WOOP! GO GET 'ER TIGER!!
L WAHHHOOOOOO YA BLOOODDYYY RIPPPEEEERRRRR!!!! ROOOARR!!!

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Glad to hear its back on, about time something good happens to your wonderful bearded soul.

[Fiction] 1:47 pm: she could probably toss a salad with that thing
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Unread 05-06-2012, 11:21 AM   #4041
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Good show.
It's a shame her phon sth wrong, though.
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Unread 05-06-2012, 12:30 PM   #4042
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I've been with my girlfriend for almost 4 months now, and she's awesome. The first girl I've been with that hasn't had strings attached or been batshit insane. She's funny, cute and more understanding than anyone I've been with. Really happy with her, which I haven't felt in some time.
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Unread 05-06-2012, 04:34 PM   #4043
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Guys I need to vent hard. This is real serious stuff

So I was "seeing" this girl for around 5 months. Things started off more physical than emotional, which kinda sucked but whatever. Fast forward to yesterday. I was upset because she basically ignored me all of friday and she just up and left. Turns out she spent all day until 6 am today plastered with her friends and ended up making out with some other guy. She says that he only wants her as a practice girlfriend for college. I on the other hand, saw what was good in her and actually had feelings for her. She even told me that she loved me two weeks ago. I am just in the absolute worst spot right now. I need your help ss.org. Please refrain from rock, etc. comments though.
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Unread 05-06-2012, 04:44 PM   #4044
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Idk man, if you tell her how you feel and see her as a potential girlfriend and she continues to get plastered and make out/ and is a practice sex toy... I'd definitely say peace that shit. She sounds like she has no self respect, why would she respect you?
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Unread 05-06-2012, 04:44 PM   #4045
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Oh dang man... That's rough. And although I can't offer any advice to you myself, the rest of us are here for you.

UPDATE OTHERWISE: Everything is going great on my end, we're hanging out on Wednesday .

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Unread 05-06-2012, 04:49 PM   #4046
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Idk man, if you tell her how you feel and see her as a potential girlfriend and she continues to get plastered and make out/ and is a practice sex toy... I'd definitely say peace that shit. She sounds like she has no self respect, why would she respect you?
Yeah man. It only happened once but I am hurt beyond hurt. I cannot believe such a thing happened to me.
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Unread 05-06-2012, 04:53 PM   #4047
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It will hurt for a few days. Maybe even a couple weeks. But you'll by over it. We all do. Gotta take care of yourself
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Unread 05-06-2012, 07:17 PM   #4048
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If it happened once I assure you it will happen again. Trust me I have experienced somewhat similar circumstances.

Basically what Faine said is true she doesn't respect herself she will never respect you and as the saying goes once a cheater always a cheater. Sounds a little to final, but about half of my relationships have been repeat cheaters. Hate to say it, but this probably isn't the first time either.
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Unread 05-06-2012, 09:58 PM   #4049
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I think some people have a mental/moral block that keeps them from cheating, and some people don't. If it's happened once, well... guess what.

Cheaters cheat, once a cheater always a cheater, yadda yadda yadda. Drop it like a hot potato, man. I dated a chick for a year and a half and I was totally crushed when I found out she cheated on me. Crushed as I was, though, I broke things off the day I found out, with no attempts to reconcile the relationship at all. Some lines just shouldn't be crossed, and anyone who disprespects you so much that they'll cheat flat out doesn't deserve to be with someone who won't. Simple as.

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Unread 05-07-2012, 12:53 AM   #4050
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I think some people have a mental/moral block that keeps them from cheating, and some people don't. If it's happened once, well... guess what.

Cheaters cheat, once a cheater always a cheater, yadda yadda yadda. Drop it like a hot potato, man. I dated a chick for a year and a half and I was totally crushed when I found out she cheated on me. Crushed as I was, though, I broke things off the day I found out, with no attempts to reconcile the relationship at all. Some lines just shouldn't be crossed, and anyone who disprespects you so much that they'll cheat flat out doesn't deserve to be with someone who won't. Simple as.
This.

My ex was cheating scum, when I found out (and who it was with) I removed any lines of communication, and I avoid the store that the guy works at, because I don't trust myself around him.

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