SS Love and Relationships Thread

[HaMMerHeD]

Well, there are no blanks to fill in just now. It was like 5am before we got around to talking about it, so that conversation was pretty short. Supposed to get together again tonight after she gets off work...so maybe there'll be more to report then.

[flint757]

Really...I got negged for "my poor judgement" plus no one signed it. That is the dumbest thing I have heard. It was personal experience related to a post about why he "shouldn't" go through with it.

I give a big .... you to you

[EDIT]
I'm sick this may be a little over the top, but that is still ....ing ridiculous, but I'll be sure to screen my posts for you sir

[Murmel]

So now a couple of months have gone by since the girl I'm in love with got together with another guy.
Shit feels much better, we still hang out and she's my best friend, but it sucks seeing them together every day. It just doesn't suck as much anymore I'm lucky they aren't very cuddly though.

It just sucks being in love with someone for more than a year and still going strong when the person isn't available

Things get a bit tense though when it's just me, her and her BF, for obvious reasons. I usually try to avoid those situations as much as I can.

[tbb529]

So earlier in the week, I ask this girl to dinner this weekend, she says "this weekend isn't good for me, I have plans, how about next weekend?" Sure, that works. She soon texts me to let me know she was mistaken and that she'd rather make time to go this weekend, tonight to be exact. Sure, that works.

Fast forward to tonight, I get a text telling me that she is apparently trying to find a party to go to with this dude she works with and forgot that we were gonna go to dinner. So basically, what the .... happened? If she changed her mind, I'd rather her just say it than make excuses. Oh well...women.

[misingonestring]

So I believe I've met one of if not the only metal chick in my town at my school. I found she like quite a few good metal bands IMO (Nevermore, Celtic Frost, Haji's Kitchen etc) and a few metal bands I don't care for but whatever. And she's actually kind of hot too.

We've been talking to each other (Via IM and/or text since we hardly have time to talk face to face) for about a week since I had a hard time getting a hold of her since I hardly see her face to face. I found that we have quite a few things in common from these talks. However she can be kind of a nutter, but then again most people within my age group are.

Her opinion on me is a mystery and the only hint that she might like me is that she told me I have a cute smile but that's about it.

[AngstRiddenDreams]

^ Metal Chicks=Win

[HaMMerHeD]

Well...have a date for next week. Taking her to a really nice place for dinner.

Whispering Pines Inn Home

[leandroab]

I guess everything is back to normal. We had a date tonight and we made out furiously.

My chakras have realigned lol...

[UnderTheSign]

Last night must've been a night of good vibes man... I'm just in here to say I had an unexpected shag in the alley behind a girl's house at 4am. Not sure wtf happened but no complaints here!

[leandroab]

Originally Posted by UnderTheSign

Last night must've been a night of good vibes man... I'm just in here to say I had an unexpected shag in the alley behind a girl's house at 4am. Not sure wtf happened but no complaints here!

Yes, I believe yesterday we had some planetary alignment or some shit! hahahhaha.

Everything went smoooth yesterday!

[sahaal]

taking out one of the better looking girls I've met for sushi then going partying then coming to her place watching movies and staying the night this friday, can't wait. Waaaaaaaaay too good for me too, I'm way too excited.

[AngstRiddenDreams]

Never say way too good for yourself!!

[soliloquy]

woot! so last thursday my gf finally hit her period after december 26th.
so thats the good news.
i told her to jump on the pill (not really for me to go without condoms, as they really dont bother me much) so she can be a bit more regular.

the bad news, the doctors said that shes prone to EVERY side effect of the pill, and it doesn't matter the brand or the dosage, but she should stay clear of pills.

so i guess it'll be one pregnancy scare after another for me and her

[AngstRiddenDreams]

^^ Dude i know exactly what you mean!!! My girlfriend's period will be regular maybe one month out of the year, other than that it's anywhere from a month and a half to three months in between, and i'm only 16 so i freak out hardcore.

[soliloquy]

Originally Posted by AngstRiddenDreams

^^ Dude i know exactly what you mean!!! My girlfriend's period will be regular maybe one month out of the year, other than that it's anywhere from a month and a half to three months in between, and i'm only 16 so i freak out hardcore.

and what sucks even more is that if your gf is like mine, then birth control pills wont work for her...so using condoms all the time, which, in my opinion is fine, but always being paranoid about it isn't



but heads up, if your gf is like mine, then after a LONG delay, she may ruin a few pants, so tell her to keep a few pads/tampons handy and constantly keep changing em...


man, sometimes women are nasty

[AngstRiddenDreams]

[Bekanor]

Blood is the life and it is...urrgghhh.

[sahaal]

SO EXCIITEDDD FO FRIDAYYY

[Bekanor]

Date attempt 2 cancelled, dramas with ex mentioned, expecting "I'm sorry I'm not ready for anything serious right now" brush-off any day now.

This sucks. Why do women do that shit? "Oh I'm having some dramas, I can't see anybody", when is life ever the level of perfection women seem to require for being in a relationship? The answer here is "....ing never".

I really like her, she really likes me, and we've said as much to each other, that's the hard part about starting a relationship done and dusted. Everything else is details, and you know what makes those details way easier to deal with? Being with someone who cares about you and wants to do whatever they can to help, even if the only practical support they can offer is laughter, back rubs and a sympathetic ear.

I'm resigned to fighting the good fight on this one and not going "Yeah ok I understand".

[leandroab]

Originally Posted by Bekanor

Date attempt 2 cancelled, dramas with ex mentioned, expecting "I'm sorry I'm not ready for anything serious right now" brush-off any day now.

This sucks. Why do women do that shit? "Oh I'm having some dramas, I can't see anybody", when is life ever the level of perfection women seem to require for being in a relationship? The answer here is "....ing never".

I really like her, she really likes me, and we've said as much to each other, that's the hard part about starting a relationship done and dusted. Everything else is details, and you know what makes those details way easier to deal with? Being with someone who cares about you and wants to do whatever they can to help, even if the only practical support they can offer is laughter, back rubs and a sympathetic ear.

I'm resigned to fighting the good fight on this one and not going "Yeah ok I understand".

This was exactly what happened to me. The girl I'm dating started with this bullshit out of the blue. I knew she liked me, I wasn't making it up or going delusional, the evidence was clear: the way she acted around me, the way she talked, etc. But she just didn't want anything because of "past relations".

I was so sick of it (it really hurt me) that I gave up on her, but I also gave her an ultimatum. She finally snapped out of it and called me. Lucky me I guess.

But the important thing here is: do not give up. I didn't and it worked. You already have the "no", the worst thing it can happen is still having it.

[Faine]

Originally Posted by Bekanor

Date attempt 2 cancelled, dramas with ex mentioned, expecting "I'm sorry I'm not ready for anything serious right now" brush-off any day now.

This sucks. Why do women do that shit? "Oh I'm having some dramas, I can't see anybody", when is life ever the level of perfection women seem to require for being in a relationship? The answer here is "....ing never".

I really like her, she really likes me, and we've said as much to each other, that's the hard part about starting a relationship done and dusted. Everything else is details, and you know what makes those details way easier to deal with? Being with someone who cares about you and wants to do whatever they can to help, even if the only practical support they can offer is laughter, back rubs and a sympathetic ear.

I'm resigned to fighting the good fight on this one and not going "Yeah ok I understand".

My last ex in November/ December did something much worse. We were best friends for 2 years or so... wish I listened to everyones advice when they said " never date your friends" but then i always heard the best relationships come from good friendships. Anyway... We were great friends and everything and she recently got out of a relationship a few months prior with some
after she broke up with him a few months out of the blue she tells me she likes me and i'm everything shes been looking for. So I figure I give it a shot since I always had a thing for her... things were PERFECT man, everything was goin great for about a month. I was really diggin her.. Then out of the blue she tells me she still has feelings for her ex and she doesnt want to ruin our friendship and then she went back to him. We havent talked since. She ruined our friendship and made me question my trust.


But now I have another girlfriend and shes awesome and things are goin great


But I would suggest giving her time to get over her last ex. Girls need that. But keep her interested know what I mean?

[The Reverend]

Originally Posted by soliloquy

and what sucks even more is that if your gf is like mine, then birth control pills wont work for her...so using condoms all the time, which, in my opinion is fine, but always being paranoid about it isn't



but heads up, if your gf is like mine, then after a LONG delay, she may ruin a few pants, so tell her to keep a few pads/tampons handy and constantly keep changing em...


man, sometimes women are nasty

Too much information!

[JeffFromMtl]

Just need a place to vent for a second.

This weekend, I found out that my ex is back with the guy that she was with before me (a rich, spoiled guy that's still supported by his parents with a bad attitude and a drug habit), after swearing that she had finally cut him out of her life for good after being with him on and off for 7 years.

Contrary to what you'd expect, I'm not feeling hurt in any way shape or form. I've moved on, have been with a few girls since, and have been having a casual relationship with the most gorgeous woman I know. However, what irks me about it is that she's now officially gone back on every single thing that she wanted to change about her life. She's an intelligent, attractive girl, and has all the potential in the world. She can just never stick to anything. As soon as anything gets too difficult, she bails. She left a sketchy life behind a little bit before we met and was all about changing and being a better person. As time went on, she just started falling into bad habits again. She was back in University, but decided to drop out for the second time, tried quitting smoking when she started dating me (under no pressure from me, although she made the decision knowing that I'm not into smokers) but gave that up after a month, she finally had a good, strong-minded guy that was willing to support her and be understanding of the bullshit that comes with trying to leave her old way of life behind, and when shit started getting serious, she pushed me away. And about a week or two after we broke up, she moved out of her apartment because she couldn't afford it anymore and in with a friend from work who enabled her to get back into her old ways, because she had the same bad habits.

The month after our relationship ended was rocky because we decided to continue sleeping together, which was a bad idea. Anyway, we ended up getting in a huge fight and I called her out on all of this shit and may have let my anger get the better of me and I dropped the c-bomb on her. I felt awful for weeks, and ashamed of having reduced myself to petty name-calling. But upon finding out that she's with her ex, who is part of her old life and bad habits again, I realized just how much of a disaster she is and that her whole disaster is her own doing. Every single thing she swore to, and had changed in her life, she's gone back on. Back to being the person she didn't want to be. And getting back with her enabling/bad influence ex was the final nail in that coffin. I don't regret a thing I said to her anymore because I know I was right, but nonetheless, nobody likes to watch a ship sink.

[avenger]

My ex has a porn blog... lolwut!

[Bekanor]

Originally Posted by leandroab

This was exactly what happened to me. The girl I'm dating started with this bullshit out of the blue. I knew she liked me, I wasn't making it up or going delusional, the evidence was clear: the way she acted around me, the way she talked, etc. But she just didn't want anything because of "past relations".

I was so sick of it (it really hurt me) that I gave up on her, but I also gave her an ultimatum. She finally snapped out of it and called me. Lucky me I guess.

But the important thing here is: do not give up. I didn't and it worked. You already have the "no", the worst thing it can happen is still having it.

Originally Posted by Faine

My last ex in November/ December did something much worse. We were best friends for 2 years or so... wish I listened to everyones advice when they said " never date your friends" but then i always heard the best relationships come from good friendships. Anyway... We were great friends and everything and she recently got out of a relationship a few months prior with some
after she broke up with him a few months out of the blue she tells me she likes me and i'm everything shes been looking for. So I figure I give it a shot since I always had a thing for her... things were PERFECT man, everything was goin great for about a month. I was really diggin her.. Then out of the blue she tells me she still has feelings for her ex and she doesnt want to ruin our friendship and then she went back to him. We havent talked since. She ruined our friendship and made me question my trust.


But now I have another girlfriend and shes awesome and things are goin great


But I would suggest giving her time to get over her last ex. Girls need that. But keep her interested know what I mean?

Well the thing is, she hasn't actually said anything to the effect of "No can do relationship status brah", I just have the gut feeling that she will (although I don't think she's the kind of person to let me dangle if she was only going to bail on me anyway).

Moreover, it's not that she has feelings for her ex, she hates his cheating ass. The dramas she mentioned are that he's moved back into her house and because their names (they bought it when they were together) she can't just kick his ass out so I guess she's stressed trying to figure out how to get rid of him.

I hope it's that she just doesn't want to drag me into it for fear of scaring me off and not just avoiding me so that giving me the flick later is easier because we haven't actually been out yet or something.

I can't shut my stupid brain off. This shit is messing with my sleep.