SS Love and Relationships Thread

[leandroab]

Originally Posted by Sicarius

maybe

maybe not.

why don't you come visit and we'll find out

"Mooooom! He touched me in my special place!"

[Bekanor]

So first date got cancelled because her daughter got really sick and had to go to the doctors.

So we're going to have lunch this week and dinner and a movie at my place on Saturday night.

[leandroab]

Originally Posted by Bekanor

So first date got cancelled because her daughter got really sick and had to go to the doctors.

So we're going to have lunch this week and dinner and a movie at my place on Saturday night.

:h ump:

[Bekanor]

Here's hoping.

We had the first date conversation over several hours of texting. Although I've never had a first date conversation that included quite so much enquiry into the naughty side of things.

[Fiction]

If I'm texting, it will be naughty

[MFB]

Originally Posted by Bekanor

Here's hoping.

We had the first date conversation over several hours of texting. Although I've never had a first date conversation that included quite so much enquiry into the naughty side of things.

Don't worry, first night of hanging out with my last girlfriend, before we got into the "making out in various parts of the house" part of the night; we were sitting on the couch and she just out of the blue asked me what porn sites I went to. I made her tell me one, then I told her one, and it went back and forth for a few minutes discussing what we liked about them

[Sicarius]

I now have a blue alien girlfriend.

Mass Effect, I got your Turian Problems right here *grabs junk*

[leandroab]

Originally Posted by Bekanor

Here's hoping.

We had the first date conversation over several hours of texting. Although I've never had a first date conversation that included quite so much enquiry into the naughty side of things.

On the first date I had with this girl (which I'm still having problems with) SHE wanted to kiss but I didn't lol. Go figure.

Btw, remember all that emotional shit I wrote previously? Well I was almost forgetting about her and she texts me this afternoon asking if I want to hang out next saturday. Looks like a good opportunity for closure. I mean I'm fine with both options (friendzone/ just friends or relationship), I just want to get this straight. Obviously I'll be pissed and hurt if it ends up with a friendzone and I'll be feeling shitty for another week, but life goes on...

Originally Posted by Sicarius

I now have a blue alien girlfriend.

Mass Effect, I got your Turian Problems right here *grabs junk*

Yeah, I plan on giving Liara some penis treatment. Btw my shepard character is ....ING UGLY... hahahahahah

[blister7321]

afternoon gents, been a while since i posted but i have a dilemma

ok i have this friend and shes really cool everyones been telling me for years to ask her
heres the kicker, shes got a boyfriend whom everyone tells me is a peace of shit to her
several mutual friends have told me that if i asked her shed dump him for me
out so around dec 15 i start planning out a way to do so, i dont use facebook or any of that and i dont have her # so i have my brother text her to see if she'd go to the local hookah lounge with a group of us and i was gonna do it there
no response
then new years eve rolls around we had a party at my house my band played it was great my mom actually invited her
the day of i found out everyone in the house was betting id puss out but my buddy who was staying with us that week LOL
so she shows up we go inside and im really bad at doing this kinda shit especially with a friggin audience so i wait for people to go out side and i tell her that id been thinkin about it for a while and everyone was betting i wouldnt do it so then i quoted the ataris and said you should dump yer boyfriend and go out with me
her response was "i love you but im not gonna breakup with my bf now" so i was like cool
now id promised myself i wouldnt let a no effect me and that i wasnt losing anything
the only problem is i have let it get to me

gimme some advice guys

[Konfyouzd]

WALK AWAY

If a girl is with a piece of shit and doesn't leave it's bc she wants to be with that piece of shit. I know it's cliche to say but there ARE other people...

[blister7321]

thanks dude

[BlindingLight7]

I'm kinda having a fling online with a (supposed) girl that has G cup tits, and she is pretty wild, but she goes to ....ing church! the ....?

Shes getting breast reduction to a D today, and honestly I don't what to think of it, I generally look down on chicks that alter themselves but in her case its been getting in the way of her career and junk...so meh.

I just can't see myself with her though, and I dunno how to tell her that without crushing her massively, she's one of these "gets attached quickly, hurt quickly" girls and yeah...I just don't think its going anywhere, it's so focused on sex right now...which isn't bad but I really want to be FRIENDS with a girl too, not just f-buddies. meh


So that was pretty horrible with the grammar, oh well.

[HaMMerHeD]

So I've been spending a lot of time with this really amazing girl. She is pretty much everything I look for: smart, great sense of humor, thoughtful, independent, strong-willed, musical (since and plays guitar), artistic (draws, paints, makes jewelry), and of course beautiful (big brown eyes, red hair, and she smiles with her whole face). She was very close friends with my ex wife (prior to said ex-wife's untimely death), so if there was ever a person who would hate me, it's her. But she doesn't. She really likes me, and tells me frequently how much she likes spending time with me, and how I have had an enriching influence on her life. Also, as she was friends with my ex-wife, she knows all about my daughter, and loves her to death.

Practically every possible "sign" with which I have experience has happened, indicating that she has approximately the same level of interested in me as I have in her. I'm not sure how much more obvious it could get. I even came up with a pet name for her and used it. I figure if she didn't dig me, the pet name would creep her the .... out. But it didn't. She just smiled and said she loved it.

So I am about 99.9% sure she is way into me. I'm pretty sure that some kind of overture would be appreciated and returned, but I'm terrified to actually do it. Mostly, this is because I have had a string of extremely unpleasant failed relationships since my divorce, and I'm not really excited to repeat the experience.

So I guess what it comes down to is that I fear the potentional outcome of entering a relationship with this person. This is, in fact, what I have been in counseling for for about 3 years now. I'm a very analytical and logical person, and I can think of a million bad ways for a relationship to end, but only one way for a good relationship to endure. And those aren't good odds.

Now I've written it out, the trepidation I feel sounds pretty silly to me.

[Konfyouzd]

Large tits =/= church-goer?

Church-goer =/= cool?

I've had wet sloppy nasty balls deep sex with chicks that go to church religiously. Just sayin'...

Also, do you know how much one G titty probably weighs? How about 2? Many women get reductions to alleviate back problems as well.

And it's just an online fling. Massively crush her? Are you that heavily involved or do you just think that highly of yourself?

[murakami]

Originally Posted by HaMMerHeD

So I've been spending a lot of time with this really amazing girl. She is pretty much everything I look for: smart, great sense of humor, thoughtful, independent, strong-willed, musical (since and plays guitar), artistic (draws, paints, makes jewelry), and of course beautiful (big brown eyes, red hair, and she smiles with her whole face). She was very close friends with my ex wife (prior to said ex-wife's untimely death), so if there was ever a person who would hate me, it's her. But she doesn't. She really likes me, and tells me frequently how much she likes spending time with me, and how I have had an enriching influence on her life. Also, as she was friends with my ex-wife, she knows all about my daughter, and loves her to death.

Practically every possible "sign" with which I have experience has happened, indicating that she has approximately the same level of interested in me as I have in her. I'm not sure how much more obvious it could get. I even came up with a pet name for her and used it. I figure if she didn't dig me, the pet name would creep her the .... out. But it didn't. She just smiled and said she loved it.

So I am about 99.9% sure she is way into me. I'm pretty sure that some kind of overture would be appreciated and returned, but I'm terrified to actually do it. Mostly, this is because I have had a string of extremely unpleasant failed relationships since my divorce, and I'm not really excited to repeat the experience.

So I guess what it comes down to is that I fear the potentional outcome of entering a relationship with this person. This is, in fact, what I have been in counseling for for about 3 years now. I'm a very analytical and logical person, and I can think of a million bad ways for a relationship to end, but only one way for a good relationship to endure. And those aren't good odds.

Now I've written it out, the trepidation I feel sounds pretty silly to me.

first, thanks for being the first guy in a while to write out his problem in sentences, and not some long run-on sentence with 'lol' at the end or
somewhere in the middle of it.

second; if you've waited this long and been working hard and making sure your kids are clothed and happy, then you deserve a woman who can treat you right and look at you with love.

now i don't know exactly how you feel, but you seem to go on about how much she's into you... and i mean, if you're only thinking of getting with
her because she is showing that feeling for you then thats kind of a bust.
if you have feelings for her then venture it but don't rush in.

see where it goes. but go with it naturally, especially since you say you're in a sensitive spot in all.
terrified? been there, man... been there

[BlindingLight7]

Originally Posted by Konfyouzd

Large tits =/= church-goer?

Church-goer =/= cool?

I've had wet sloppy nasty balls deep sex with chicks that go to church religiously. Just sayin'...

Also, do you know how much one G titty probably weighs? How about 2? Many women get reductions to alleviate back problems as well.

And it's just an online fling. Massively crush her? Are you that heavily involved or do you just think that highly of yourself?

She's about an hour away, we just know eachother via interwebs, and she wants me to come see her after she's healed up... but ehhhhhhh

I'm amazed at how the more wise/older I get, the more I realize I can utilize the world ....ed-up-ness to my advantage, this is one of those cases I suppose. Cause I am almost certain I find some of these church going freaky chicks in my area that aren't totally ....ed.





P.s. This thread is so fun to read sometimes, it seems like us musicians suck at expressing our emotions directly to the women/men we like, maybe thats why we're musicians? :o

[Konfyouzd]

I think a lot of church-goers are church-goers bc they feel they need it for one reason or another...

I find it hard to believe God would believe you any less if you truly believed and didn't attend Church. Just seems like a silly formality to me.

[BlindingLight7]

The only reason I went was to get friends..worst decision of my life, just made things worse

[HaMMerHeD]

Originally Posted by murakami

first, thanks for being the first guy in a while to write out his problem in sentences, and not some long run-on sentence with 'lol' at the end or
somewhere in the middle of it.

second; if you've waited this long and been working hard and making sure your kids are clothed and happy, then you deserve a woman who can treat you right and look at you with love.

now i don't know exactly how you feel, but you seem to go on about how much she's into you... and i mean, if you're only thinking of getting with
her because she is showing that feeling for you then thats kind of a bust.
if you have feelings for her then venture it but don't rush in.

see where it goes. but go with it naturally, especially since you say you're in a sensitive spot in all.
terrified? been there, man... been there

Thanks. First, I am definitely into her. I suppose I didn't mention it because I have mostly been concerned with how she feels. Basically, I am trying to figure out what the best course of action is. I feel like the atmosphere that exists whenever we spend time together will inevitably lead us in the direction I want to go, so I am inclined to do nothing overtly out of the ordinary. On the one hand, I feel like if I let nature do its thing, I'll get there eventually. At the same time, I have had experiences with a woman moving on after X number of days/weeks because I didn't act on a/the moment, specifically because I was happy with the pace of advancement. She moved on because she didn't think I liked her, because I didn't do anything stupidly obvious. I'm not too fussed about losing that chick, but this one is more special to me.

So that's where I am right now. I don't want to do something "too much" and potentially scare her away, but I am also concerned about sitting back and losing the initiative.

I suppose I am just trying to organize my thoughts.

My headshrinker tells me I need to live more in the moment. Right now, my head scours the future and the past with equal vigour, leaving the now unattended. Framed in that context, I feel like I should make a move, because now is when I feel it.

[Fiction]

You're last sentence sums everything up, go for it.

[leandroab]

Originally Posted by Fiction

You're last sentences

New djent band name.

[flint757]

Originally Posted by Konfyouzd

WALK AWAY

If a girl is with a piece of shit and doesn't leave it's bc she wants to be with that piece of shit. I know it's cliche to say but there ARE other people...

THIS

I had a fling with a chick who was engaged (yes i know that is in poor taste). Dude is a douche bag, but she'd never leave him. Those chicks are all the same every last one of them for whatever reason they want that relationship.

[Konfyouzd]

Originally Posted by flint757

THIS

I had a fling with a chick who was engaged (yes i know that is in poor taste). Dude is a douche bag, but she'd never leave him. Those chicks are all the same every last one of them for whatever reason they want that relationship.

They want what he's not giving her plus the security of always having someone...


A lot of women, for some reason, are under the impression that a good man will leave them. Obviously a a piece of shit won't leave. No one else would put up with him.

[HaMMerHeD]

Originally Posted by Fiction

You're last sentence sums everything up, go for it.

Well I did. We took a drive last night and I laid it all out for her, and she responded in kind. So...yep.

[AngstRiddenDreams]

So yep? ^^ Fill in the blanks bro!!!!