From listening to your new sample (writing of the song is cool, pretty Bulb-like), the kick is getting really masked in the mix, as well as the overheads. The snare sticks out, but it has WAY too much top end. On it's eq, boost the "meat" of the snare to give it some body.
I don;t use EZdrummer anymore. I use addictive drums. ANd don't rely on just SD2 for your kick. I blend this sick sample I made (in the studio at Anderson University while tracking drums for a friend's cd) that almost perfect matches Despised Icon's kick.
ok just realized you use ezdrummer, wich makes me even more confuse since my drum tracks sound shittier in there. damn my double bass sound nothing like yours, and i tweaked a little with a Eq in reaper.