Just try some compression, ditch the SD2 kick and trigger it with something else (im sure you can find music with just the kick being played - one i can think of is parkway drive's newer album, on one of the songs just the kick is being played in the beginning and its a decent one) and mess with the eq so everything stands out more. I have my snare's eq set to lots of lows for the punch and a little highs for clarity.
Let me know if you want any more info, be on the lookout for an awesome EP this summer
-Eric