[Your Majesty]

Originally Posted by The Dark Wolf

Since she loves to throw these mysterious -ass threads out here, Aanyone care to hazard a guess as to what YM is guilty about? Girls usually seem to get guilty when they bang their friend's boyfriend. Not that I have any experience with that or anything.

Sorry to burst your bublle...... but there is no mystery to speculate and even if there was, I wouldn't make any such confessions on a open board for everyone to read. Let's get real here?

If you know me well at all, I am extremely selective in WHO I confess my secrets too. This place isn't one of them. I simply asked a question based on curiosity on how males deal with this emotion, being that women, deal with it entirely different.

Regardless, the topic at hand, merits the discussion on the dealings of guilt and how one deals with those emotions - thats the only reason why I asked the question.

Originally Posted by Popsyche

Some great responses here Yo' Maj!

Dealing with guilt is a tough one. If the guilt is over an accidental occurance that you have no control over, vow to be more careful next time. If it was something within your control, and it can be fixed, fix it! If it's a matter of something that had to be done, and you did it, and are feeling guilty about it, wouldn't the consequesnces of not doing it be worse?

The main thing is not to beat yourself up about something that has happened in the past, that you can't do anything about. Feeling bad won't fix anything. Constantly asking yourself, "why did I do that!" won't change your situation one bit!

Give yourself a little slack! We are all(for the most part here!) only human.

I knew I could depend on one intelligent response. Thank you. I will take my direct response to this with you off the board, as your points merit further discussion, but I will say this.... you had mentioned doing something because you had do and then feeling guilty... that would be the normal. However, in this case, I have done something that after much thought I don't have any guilt and perhap I should.... ???

We'll talk soon and thank you.

[JPMDan]

TDW = pwned

[Popsyche]

[nitelightboy]

Brown noser

[The Dark Wolf]

Originally Posted by JPMDan

TDW = pwned

Bah. You ever see me bring anything even remotely personal on here? Or make these mysterious ass threads?

Nope.

If you're going to post shit like that, expect people to ask what the fuck it's about. But do I really give a shit?




Nope.



I'd rather speculate on the source. Methinks the lady doth protest too much.

[Your Majesty]

I can post whatever I want babe....and in the end, you don't need to reply.

[The Dark Wolf]

Originally Posted by Your Majesty

I can post whatever I want babe....and in the end, you don't need to reply.

Babe? Hey, if you're gonna be a part of this forum, be prepared to be ribbed like the rest of us. On an open forum, anyone can reply, remember that. It shows we care.




Babe.

[Your Majesty]

Originally Posted by The Dark Wolf

Hey, if you're gonna be a part of this forum, be prepared to be ribbed like the rest of us.

Babe.

Oh, I have gotten my sharing of....what is the term you used, "ribbed"? Yes...... you males have the art mastered in ribbing this one chick. Babe. ...and thank you for caring awhhhh....

[The Dark Wolf]

Originally Posted by Your Majesty

Oh, I have gotten my sharing of....what is the term you used, "ribbed"? Yes...... you males have the art mastered in ribbing this one chick. Babe. ...and thank you for caring awhhhh....

See? And in my Zen-like, Godly wisdom, you see how to deal with guilt and stupid shit like that. Which just weighs you down.


Humor.


Instead of addressing the issue directly, I make light of it, and try to get you to laugh, or get pissed off, whatever. It all works. And suddenly, your mind is off bullshit, 'cause you're too busy either laughing with or cursing at me.

[nitelightboy]

And doesn't most Zen style wisdom teach humility??