While I feel for you Jeff, I can't say Bowen is entirely guilty-free either. His subtle "kicking" and that leg "extension" have been talked about for no less than 3 seasons. The Rockets (especially T-Mac) complained about it before, Kobe, Phil Jackson complained about it before, Don Nelson and the list go on and on...
That said, I feel for you. Sometimes Stu Jackson makes some ridiculous decisions out of nowhere or when the said incident feels more like a "make up" call for prior offenses etc. I still remember last season when Kobe got suspended for a game for "hitting" Manu the night before. Yet, if you recall the incident, the contact was totally accidental. Oh well.