So, i read the whole thread and feel the need to speak out...
Do any of you ever consider that the usual "growing" or "lucky break" just does not occur to some?
Theres a lot of testosterone-talk in here about stop being a bitch and overemphasizing your own struggle... you get this opinion when you've actually grown. But when you're always beaten down and just do not get a break (yes this happens, the world is cruel) it becomes not only being bullied, it becomes living hell, everyday terror. Hell i tell alot of people on a daily basis to get the sand out of their vags and start to be men, but there are scars that go beyond the fear of talking up a girl or keeping workout discipline....
I look back at my own youth and how i've been beaten down and bullied and how my life really went down the drain, it turned out ok, but if it'd continue day to day, everday, if it never woud've got better, you're afraid to go to school, to leave the flat, your body twinches when someone moves their hands in your direction, it starts to be the living hell on earth.
In the end fate threw me some lucky brakes and i got the chance to actually grow into a fully socially functioning sociopath, appearing as having a tough as .... outer shell (with the size to back it up) and having a hard as .... inner core which gets touched by nothing, positive or negative.
what i am trying to say with this cool story bro: even if fate throws you some lemons, and you do manage to make lemonade, it will still taste sour and very unpleasant.
MY POINT IS: some do not get the luxury of getting thrown a chance, and claiming to need to to get the .... over it isnt gonna do anything good.
"You will find that being in a band is much like having a relationship with a woman except there are a lot more crybabies with vaginas in the band scene." - ChrisRushing